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Cough, Sniffle, Love

We are in the middle of cold and flu season - illness is spreading like wildfire at the office, my nails are in a horrible state from the excessive hand washing and hand sanitizer use, and I wasn’t lucky enough to escape the bug this season.  I don’t enjoy January.  However, let’s look on the bright side of the season.  If you’re seeing someone new, getting sick can be a great litmus test for your relationship.

The first time you’re stuck in bed feeling and looking miserable and your love interest brings over your favorite miso soup, some movies, and a stack of trashy magazines, you know this one’s a keeper.  This person shows that he cares about you, and is willing to show up when you are not going to be much fun.

 If we’re considering a person for a long term relationship, most of us want someone who will take care of us down the line when we have surgery, give birth, or even have to deal with a serious illness.  So, take note of how they deal with smaller situations now, because it’s a good preview to how they will handle the big stuff down the line.